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  JW Husband and Apostate Wife

  by twinflame in

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  2. relationships

  ah, where to start.

  i have been married for 30 years and was a jw with my husband for 20+.

  we raised 6 children in the borg; none of which, thankfully, stuck with it.

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  Doubtfully Yours

  Pick the right, peaceful, cordial moment and inform your husband that you're not of the same mind religiously speaking and that you'd appreciate if he respected you in that regard.

  After that, whenever you get the smallest hint that the JW indoctrination is coming from him, nicely remind him about it again, and again, and again, until he finally gets it.

  My husband currently understands that I'm not wholeheartedly in the religion and he leaves me alone for the most part. I've even gone as far as telling him the truth about why I'm still somewhat in, that it's because I need to talk to my family, and that otherwise I'd have left a long time ago. He respects that and really leaves me alone. The only difference is that we truly love each other and have so much personality and other things in common.

  The only thing I regret is that he really loves his religion and because of me he won't be able to get as far as he deserves inside it. He's a truly good guy, and good Christian.

  DY
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  JW Husband and Apostate Wife

  by twinflame in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ah, where to start.

  i have been married for 30 years and was a jw with my husband for 20+.

  we raised 6 children in the borg; none of which, thankfully, stuck with it.

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  Doubtfully Yours

  Twinflame,

  Don't make things harder than they have to be on yourself and on your husband.

  You've already successfully left the WBTS with your children. They're grown and gone. Your husband has accepted it and keeps on trucking. It seems that he's left you alone; then, what is it you're looking for? Leave him alone! Don't sweat the small stuff anymore!

  Doing some volunteer work is a step in the right direction. Fill your life with positive, constructive things and live it one day at a time.

  Otherwise, it all just sounds to me like you want out and are looking for an excuse. There's no perfect situation/relationship out there, you know. Find enjoyment in the life you have now and quit the whining.

  DY
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  Court Shows on TV

  by pratt1 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i took the day off from work yesterday and i watched daytime tv.. i got a real kick out of the court shows.. especially judge judy.

  she is a riot!.

  does anyone else watch talk shows?.

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  Doubtfully Yours

  I really enjoy Judge Judy, and also Divorce Court.

  DY
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  Were there any unofficial predictions in your congregations?

  by badboy in

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  i understand that carey barber?

  once told someone that the end of the world would came before the awaji bridge was built.. were there any similiar predictions?

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  Doubtfully Yours

  There's this crazy sister spreading rumors that Armageddon is coming next year. Several agree with her.

  DY
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  Did the JW religion add stress to your life?

  by JH in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was very stressed when i was an active jw.

  i hated going to meetings, knocking at doors, preparing meetings and so on.. i hated talking in front of a group.

  there was too much to read and to prepare, and never felt like i was good enough.. last night i took a walk and passed in front of the book study where i was just a few months ago.

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  Doubtfully Yours

  It's very stressful for JWs that follow the rules as the WBTS would like them too. Just think....

  • Must work to support self/family (most likely full-time; since the WBTS frowns on higher education, most have these really hard/physical jobs).
  • 5 meetings per week (Get there at least 15 mins early and stay 15 mins later so you can be friendly to all).
  • Must prepare/study privately for those 5 meetings per week.
  • Must have private Bible study with chil(ren) in order to indoctrinate in the WBTS' ways.
  • If male, extra time devoted to congregational privileges.
  • Must participate in field preaching at least 2x per week, in order to maintain the national hours average.
  • Memorial
  • 3 yearly assemblies.
  • Throughout all these, maintain a joyful facade or else you're not serving Jehovah as one should.

  This religion is very taxing financially, emotionally, physically and time wise.

  DY
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  Well, I handled that amazingly well...

  by Joel Wideman in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  as my wife predicted, my mother heard that she da'd herself.

  she called, and spoke with my boy for awhile.

  (she needs her medication adjusted.

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  Doubtfully Yours

  You did very well. Keep your stance, otherwise you'll have a religiously divided family.

  Don't ever let your kid(s) alone with JWs. Kids are so impressionable and are like sponges. They'll be so indoctrinated, and your house will not have peace.

  DY
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  ~Your image, reputation here at JWD~

  by FlyingHighNow in

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  what impression do you think you make here at jwd?

  what do people think of you?

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  Doubtfully Yours

  Prude. It's what I am, really. Quite the conservative being, indeed!

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  Do you JW's believe that during the 1000 yr reign that all the dead will JW

  by booker-t in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was wondering especially from some of the old timers out there jw's or ex-jw's that really understand the jw's concept of the reserrected dead during the 1000 reign of jesus christ.

  do they believe that the people brought back from the dead will have to convert to jw's in order to live on for eternity?

  i know this sounds like a stupid question but i was talking to a jw's elder the other day and he told me that people like my grandmother who was a "devout born-again baptist" would have to study and become a jw's in the 1000 year reign before she could enter into paradise.

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  Doubtfully Yours

  Not the slightest clue!

  If such a time should come, worry about how to be among those people that have the favor of God. The rest will be up to Him to establish.

  DY
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  How precisely will god save the JWs at armageddon?

  by kid-A in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  have you ever wondered, based upon the artists conception below, how it is jehovah will supposedly "save" the witnesses during his "great day of vengeance(tm)".

  i mean, will he transport all 6 million of them into waiting cruise ships while he is throwing fireballs onto the earth?

  how will all the dubs avoid falling into those giant crevasses as he starts the continental earthquakes?

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  Doubtfully Yours

  Haven't the slightest clue!

  There's no answer to this question. If there will be an armageddon, let's worry about obtaining God's favor, and then worry about the rest when the time comes.

  DY
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  Homosexuality at Bethel

  by Sam the Man in

  1. jw
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  whilst at london bethel, i witnessed this first hand.

  i know that it went on there.

  those from brooklyn bethel (i understand that there are a few ex brooklyn bethelites here), the question i have for you is 'did you witness/hear of any over your side of the pond?

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  Doubtfully Yours

  Either homisexuality is practiced in Brooklyn/Patterson Bethel, or there are just far too many effeminate guys over there! Of this I'm certain.

  DY